I was thinking about how you have to beware, when people try to get you to rush into anything, especially relationships and marriage. It’s a true sign of desperation and that you should STEER CLEAR. LOL
I was reading something someone wrote about knowing a few couples who have been put together by God and how they didn’t date but a few days and then they were married and are still together and I thought “LIES”. lol
I watched one of my dear friends be joined together by God with her mate after waiting four years and they were engaged four months and after marriage, the one thing she told me is if she could do it over again, she would not have married so quickly.
When people marry like that, most of the time it’s about lust. Maybe they don’t want to fornicate, so they just jump into an ill-timed marriage and assume it will work. Well that is a fantasy. As I was thinking about all of this I heard in my spirit “Fools Rush In”.
I understand the desperation of rushing in. A lot of women do that because they want to lock the man down, but if someone or something is for you, you don’t have to rush in. I think it’s the most foolish move you can make. Timing is everything and time reveals ALL things. Just let a desperate person sit and wait for a while and you will see their true colors come out. People can’t fake it forever. lol Yes, it’s a fool who rushes in.
King James Version (KJV)
11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.