My heart is guarded and with good reason. I’m waiting for a love that is true and I know what it will look like. First, it will not be saying “I love you” to someone else. He will not be waiting for ME to woo him. A grown up man and a grown up love will pursue me and won’t be expecting me to get his attention away from someone else.
People have strange ideas about love and relationships, which in no way resembles what God has for us. Ladies, if you see him interacting with someone else, leave him alone. Men are funny. They will act like you left them alone, when the truth is they left you alone. And I don’t know on what planet, its acceptable for you to try to woo him away from someone else. If he is not that into you, just keep it moving. It’s on HIM, not YOU!
If he is in another relationship, then that is his choice. Expecting you to do something to get his attention away from someone else is not the way to go. If you get him that way, you will lose him the same way.
If a man wants you in his life, you’ll be in his life. And if he doesn’t, you won’t be and that is okay. And don’t you DARE pick up and move for a man who has not put a ring on it and is not backing a UHAUL truck up to your door! DON’T YOU DARE!
Love will find you. Remember how valuable you are! Let him win you, woo you, love you and pry open your heart. God will send him at the right time. YOUR BOAZ Will COME. Until that time keep you heart guarded.
P.S. My heart is open to love. It’s just I will know it when I see it!
New International Version (NIV)
23 Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.