Love Series: Only You!

onlyyouI wrote this, this morning and didn’t post:

It’s so funny. If a man says to you ” it’s only you”, you are going to think he means it’s only you right? Well sometimes that man is letting you know that you have NOT been the only one and he is trying to convince you and himself that it’s now only you! lol

I was looking at something recently and wondering what it was all about. I was thinking, perhaps this is real and I need to rethink what I heard, But then the truth came out and God showed me that this so-called love that I was looking at was not love at all. GOD showed it to me. I don’t care what someone says. Actions speak louder than words.

If a man really loves you, he will not be sleeping with other women case closed period. And if he says he loves you and that is what he does, trust me he doesn’t know what love is about. He may have an affection for you, he may want to love you, but he doesn’t love you.

Men make all kinds of excuses about their behavior. But the bottom line is a cheater is not in love with you. Women divorce their husbands because of cheating. Well why marry a cheater? And don’t fall for that, it was in my past when it was 3 wks ago. It takes more than a minute to break a soul-tie. Personally, if a man runs from the bed of another woman into your arms SOMETHING IS WRONG! Run! This is a man who has yet to learn what true love is about.

Watch when he says only you, it’s because you are not the only one!

Paul Walker Dead at Age 40

paulwalkerTribune staff and wire reports 10:33 a.m. CST, December 1, 2013
Actor Paul Walker, best known for his roles in the “Fast and the Furious” action movies, died on Saturday in a car crash in Southern California, his publicist said.Walker, 40, who was in five of the six films about illegal street racing and heists, was a passenger in a friend’s car and was attending a charity event, according to a message linked to his Twitter account.”Sadly, I must confirm that Paul did pass away this afternoon in a car accident,” Ame Van Iden, Walker’s publicist, said in an email.The Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department said in a statement that two people were killed in a car accident in Valencia, a community in the city of Santa Clarita, at about 5:30 p.m. CT.

Deputies arriving at the scene found the vehicle engulfed in flames. The victims were pronounced dead at the scene, the statement said. The office did not provide the identities of the dead, and said the cause was under investigation.

In the “Fast and Furious” pictures, the blond-haired, blue-eyed actor played Brian O’Conner, a law enforcement official.

The first movie in the series, which stars Vin Diesel, was released in 2001, and a seventh was in development at the time of his death, Universal, the studio behind the franchise, said in a statement. The most recent film, released in May, was one of this year’s biggest box office hits.

“Brother I will miss you very much,” Diesel said in a post on Instagram, adding “I am absolutely speechless. Heaven has gained a new Angel. Rest in Peace.”

According to the movie website, Paul William Walker IV was born in Glendale, California, in 1973 and began acting at a very young age, appearing in many commercials.

He played Professor Bennet in the 1987 movie “Monster in the Closet” and starred in the television series “Throb,” IMDb said.

Walker also made guest appearances on television shows, including “Charles in Charge” and “Who’s the Boss?” and had a role in the soap opera, “The Young and the Restless.”

Other film appearances include “Timeline,” “Into the Blue,” “The Lazarus Project” and “Hours,” which is slated for release in December.

According to IMDb, Walker has a daughter named Meadow.

Universal conveyed its condolences to Walker’s family, saying, “All of us at Universal are heartbroken.

“Paul was truly one of the most beloved and respected members of our studio family for 14 years, and this loss is devastating to us, to everyone involved with the Fast and Furious films, and to countless fans.”

More tributes flowed on social media websites such as Twitter, Facebook and Instagram.

“So sad. He gave a lot of joy,” wrote James Franco, while model/actor Tyson Beckford posted “Tyson Beckford: RIP Paul Walker, loved working with you on “Into the Blue.”

Television host Carson Daly said that he was “Sick about the tragic loss of #PaulWalker. I enjoyed our time together very much. Such a really nice guy,” while actress Alyssa Milano, current host of “Project Runway All Stars,” protested “No. No. No” before adding “Rest with the angels.”

Carla Rivera of the Los Angeles Times contributed.

Rest In Peace


U.S. Christian broadcaster Paul Crouch dies aged 79

Sun Dec 1, 2013 7:21am EST

(Reuters) – Paul Crouch, the U.S. televangelist who founded one of the world’s largest Christian broadcasting networks, died on Saturday at age 79.

Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN) – the company he set up with his wife Jan – beamed Christian programs over 84 satellite channels and more than 18,000 television and cable affiliates, according to its website.

Crouch left his job as general manager of a San Bernardino, California, broadcaster in 1973, then bought and expanded a California television station.

TBN went on to broadcast over, among others, Smile of a Child children’s channel, The Church Channel, TBN Asia, TBN Europe, TBN Russia, TBN Africa, Al-Horreya TV and Arabic language network and TBN Nejat TV, a Farsi language channel.

His books included “I Had No Father but God,” “Hello World,” “Omega Code,” “Megiddo” and “The Shadow of the Apocalypse.”

“His passing followed a decade-long fight with degenerative heart disease,” TBN said on its website.

(This story has been refiled to remove extraneous word in third paragraph)

(Reporting by Chris Michaud; Editing by Andrew Heavens)

Lover Series: Love and Truth

youcanthandlethetruthHow on earth are you going to say you love someone, when you won’t even tell them the truth? Well that is NOT love. But I understand. The reason  people can’t tell the truth in a relationship is because they know the truth would totally change the relationship.

So girl meets boy. She is infatuated. I say infatuated, because she doesn’t really know the mans character. She knows what is being presented to her. But hey, don’t get offended. We all have character flaws. But girl is blind, and she wants to believe that her image of her dream man is real. There is only one problem. Her image of who he is, in no way resembles who he really is. Not that he is a terrible person. He just has some terrible problems.

Listen it happens every day. Women find out their husbands are cheating. She didn’t realize he was a sex addict, or a porn addict. Many good men are in bondage to the flesh. Does that mean they are not good men? No, what it means is they are human, subject to the weakness of the flesh like we all are. But the problems comes when a man won’t tell his wife, or significant other the truth.

So girl meets boy, and marries him, but didn’t have a clue he was addicted to porn. So after she has a baby and they have to wait six weeks to resume their normal sexual relationship, he can’t handle it and his uncontrolled lust breaks out into meeting a co-worker or a stripper or prostitute and he cheats. Eventually, the wife finds out and is devastated because she never knew he had any of these problems. Are you appalled by this scenario? Trust me, it happens ever day.

Why start a relationship lying? Tell the truth. If a woman really loves you, then she has to deal with REALITY. Time is out for fantasy. But I get it. it’s easier to lie to her and act “brand new”. But that is just not the truth. This is why God often has to expose stuff. He knows some people will never own truth. If you love her tell her what you have really been doing and how you really live! And don’t sugar coast it either. Do it today! Don’t make God expose you!

Matthew 5:27-28

New King James Version (NKJV)

Adultery in the Heart

27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old,[a] ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[b] 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Love Series: Awakening Love Too Soon

dv146_thumbnailThe internet has changed the way we interact with each other. Those of us who are of a certain age can remember how life was before this great information highway came along.

I am not opposed to people meeting online. I have a family member who met his wife online. But the way the online should work, is that you should meet within a year. That is my opinion. I think the reality of  meeting a person can break through the infatuation of who you think someone is.

There is another phenomenon that is taking place in the online world and that is “falling in love”  online. Do I think it can happen? I think plenty of people would tell you yes. My question would be, who did you fall in love with?

When you are not in someones day to day life it’s hard to know what is really going on. So boy meets girl and girl falls for boy and she thinks boy has fallen for her. Only there is one problem. Boy has a problem and he is a womanizer and girl doesn’t have a clue of what is going in his life. She is simply believing the words that he is saying on a computer.

I would be especially suspect if I had NEVER met the man and he is saying he loves me. If you have been relegated to a computer I would say “HOUSTON, WE HAVE A PROBLEM”! lol But some women are naive that way. The reason I say women is because  a man would never do that. He would get a life if you never brought him into your life. In fact, he would never stop living.

This is why you should be careful not to awaken love before it’s time. I’m telling you, if he says he loves you online, but you’ve never met him, after years and years (yes, it happens) trust me; there is someone else or even others.

Song of Solomon 2:7

Contemporary English Version (CEV)

7 Young women of Jerusalem,
promise me by the power
of deer and gazelles[a]
never to awaken love
before it is ready.

Love Series: A Guarded Heart

guard-your-heartI’m still on my happy high! God has been good and I can see so clearly now. It only took me seeking the Lord and him showing me that things are NOT what they seem.

My heart is guarded and with good reason. I’m waiting for a love that is true and I know what it will look like. First, it will not be saying “I love you” to someone else. He will not be waiting for ME to woo him. A grown up man and a grown up love will pursue me and won’t be expecting me to get his attention away from someone else.

People have strange ideas about love and relationships, which in no way resembles what God has for us. Ladies, if you see him interacting with someone else, leave him alone. Men are funny. They will act like you left them alone, when the truth is they left you alone. And I don’t know on what planet, its acceptable for you to try to woo him away from someone else. If he is not that into you, just keep it moving. It’s on HIM, not YOU!

If he is in another relationship, then that is his choice. Expecting you to do something to get his attention away from someone else is not the way to go. If you get him that way, you will lose him the same way.

If a man wants you in his life, you’ll be in his life. And if he doesn’t, you won’t be and that is okay. And don’t you DARE pick up and move for a man who has not put a ring on it and is not backing a UHAUL truck up to your door! DON’T YOU DARE!

Love will find you. Remember how valuable you are! Let him win you, woo you, love you and pry open your heart. God will send him at the right time. YOUR BOAZ  Will COME. Until that time keep you heart guarded.

P.S. My heart is open to love. It’s just I will know it when I see it!

Proverbs 4:23

New International Version (NIV)

23 Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.