Merry Christmas!

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Let’s try this again! lol

Have a safe, healthy and holy holiday! Don’t forget the reason for the season and whatever you do…STAY IN THE WILL OF GOD!

Luke 2:7

New King James Version (NKJV)

7 And she brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling cloths, and laid Him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.

Love Series: Straight Talk

steve-harvey-straight-talk-no-chaser-book-coverI want to scream right now! I just want a real Christian man to take a stand for righteousness! I am so very tired of so-called Christians who do not believe the bible, nor do they follow it. And then they pick and choose what they follow and mix it in with their own philosophy! SPARE ME!

I was reading Steve Harvey’s book and I have to say, I have a great deal of respect for Mr. Harvey. He is trying to help women understand men and that’s a good thing. I know Mr. Harvey is growing in his faith, but I’m going to need someone to stand up and tell the whole truth, even if it’s not what is politically correct!

In his book Steve was talking about what a man is looking for in his twenties, thirties, forties, etc. As I was reading about each stage, Mr. Harvey was sharing why a man does not want to marry until he finds out who he is and get’s himself together and I understand that. But there is a missing link as to why men don’t marry and that is because most men are fornicating.

The truth to why men don’t seek marriage is because they are able to have and are having sex outside of marriage, so there is NO DRIVE whatsoever to get married.

I wish there was one TRUE MAN OF GOD out there who would tell the truth and the whole truth. I’m telling you anytime you hear a man saying he doesn’t want to get married, or is taking his time, it’s because he is a FORNICATOR.

My best friend and I were talking about this minister on the Preacher’s of LA TV show. This man is 63 years old and has been divorced for 20 years. Listen, we keep it real. We were saying the reason the man does not feel the drive to marry is because he is getting a little something on the side. It’s already been confirmed that he had a baby out of wedlock with a young woman. Trust me, when men sit around for years and years and don’t marry, they are not living right, with few exceptions. I only know of one case (for real) where this man has been completely celibate since his divorce.

Oh. God is there anyone out there that will adhere to your word??

1 Corinthians 6:18-20

New International Version (NIV)

18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

Love Series: The Plight of the Rich and Famous Man

golddigerYesterday, I was watching this talk show, listening to this wealthy man talk about relationships and I was reading between the lines. He mentioned a pre-nup and it was clear to me that he was understanding his plight. I would say that few women could see him beyond his money and that is the truth.

I’m sure he would like to believe that some have come along and love based on who he is alone, but the reality is that unless she has her own wealth, it would be hard to tell.

I can see why wealthy people marry other wealthy people. And that is why pre-nups were created. To protect ones wealth. But the truth is even two wealthy people have them. I was just reading that Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom (who are divorcing) have a prenup and they both have money.

I felt for this man who I was watching. And with GOOD REASON, because he is right to realize it’s has a lot to do with money!

I know God showed me in a dream that BEFORE I met my mate, I would have money. In the dream I was pregnant with wealth and it was a hard “birth”. It was one of the most unusual dreams I’ve ever had because I woke up and fell asleep and continued dream. This rarely happens to me. And then to confirm the dream, that same day someone wired me $1000 dollars! Talk about a confirmation!

So do I believe in prenups? No I don’t. I don’t think it’s biblical. But then I am not wealthy yet. lol  I’ll tell you what I think after my dream manifests. lol