Lover Series: Love and Truth

youcanthandlethetruthHow on earth are you going to say you love someone, when you won’t even tell them the truth? Well that is NOT love. But I understand. The reason  people can’t tell the truth in a relationship is because they know the truth would totally change the relationship.

So girl meets boy. She is infatuated. I say infatuated, because she doesn’t really know the mans character. She knows what is being presented to her. But hey, don’t get offended. We all have character flaws. But girl is blind, and she wants to believe that her image of her dream man is real. There is only one problem. Her image of who he is, in no way resembles who he really is. Not that he is a terrible person. He just has some terrible problems.

Listen it happens every day. Women find out their husbands are cheating. She didn’t realize he was a sex addict, or a porn addict. Many good men are in bondage to the flesh. Does that mean they are not good men? No, what it means is they are human, subject to the weakness of the flesh like we all are. But the problems comes when a man won’t tell his wife, or significant other the truth.

So girl meets boy, and marries him, but didn’t have a clue he was addicted to porn. So after she has a baby and they have to wait six weeks to resume their normal sexual relationship, he can’t handle it and his uncontrolled lust breaks out into meeting a co-worker or a stripper or prostitute and he cheats. Eventually, the wife finds out and is devastated because she never knew he had any of these problems. Are you appalled by this scenario? Trust me, it happens ever day.

Why start a relationship lying? Tell the truth. If a woman really loves you, then she has to deal with REALITY. Time is out for fantasy. But I get it. it’s easier to lie to her and act “brand new”. But that is just not the truth. This is why God often has to expose stuff. He knows some people will never own truth. If you love her tell her what you have really been doing and how you really live! And don’t sugar coast it either. Do it today! Don’t make God expose you!

Matthew 5:27-28

New King James Version (NKJV)

Adultery in the Heart

27 “You have heard that it was said to those of old,[a] ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[b] 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

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