Loves Series: What’s Good Now

I’ve been going through something for a while now and it’s been maddening. But lately, I’ve been taking it all in stride because God is uncovering the truth. This may help someone.

Several years back I had a dream that I would walk the same road that a family member walked concerning her mate. In her case God showed her who He planned for her to be with and they were friends, but he was soul-tied to another woman. Well there was a spiritual battle to get him untied from this woman, but it happened. We as her family kept telling her she could do better, but she ignored us all because she knew what God had told her. I am so glad she did because after I met him, I told her, I could see why she fought for him. She weathered the storm, fought for the will of God and they are happily married.couplecuddling

Well God showed me I would travel that same path and sadly, I am walking through it now. This has been a very long battle and just today this man was letting me know that he is going to do what he wants and be with someone who makes him “happy”. Well, I kind of get it. He seems to have found someone (online) who is exactly who he wants. I’m skeptical, because I know some things, but I will leave that alone. This is who he says he wants, so it is what it i

When things like this happen, you can’t help but feel rejected, but the truth is, I think we both feel the same about the situation. We really don’t have a “love connection”. But I see the potential in him and who God says he is going to be. So I am also going to “fight”, for him.

I remember years ago hearing this minister preach a sermon and she emphasized that what seems good for you know will not be good for you a few years from now and that is my only conclusion about this matter. You have two people who want to be together now, who God says won’t work later and you have two people who are like oil and water now and God says they will work. Well all I can say is what seems good for you now, won’t be good for you a few years from now. And really, it might not be good for you immediately.  Earlier, I was getting upset about this, but then I had to be honest.  Right now, he and I feel exactly the same about each other. Skeptical about any kind of relationship.

This week, God revealed to me again (I was starting to doubt) that this man knows what God has said about me, but he is pretending that he doesn’t know. Well, today, it just seems he is going to be blatantly disobedient. Well as Dr. Phil would say “good luck with that”.  It’s not going to work.  But all things must run their course. This other “relationship” must play out and I already see the end. But that must die first because it would always be a hindrance to God’s plan. black-couple-upset1

To whom much is given, much is required. But one thing I do know is that God spoke to both of us and he KNOWS what God’s will is. It was clearly communicated to him BY GOD. But we do have a choice, which will end up being God’s choice in the end. lol

4 thoughts on “Loves Series: What’s Good Now

  1. I read your blogs daily and I really enjoy them. This particular one really got me. I was in this same situation, concerning God saying that me and my now ex would get back together after we had a bad break up, but I also heard that I would always have a struggle with him. Mind you I admit that I prayed to God to restore this relationship. Well after we 1st broke up I was heartbroken but we ended up back together and he proposed. I then started having dreams of him getting a woman pregnant amongst other things like him losing his car and having a rough time. Well he lost the car, home and just about everything shortly after the dream, but I stayed with him and we worked on our relationship. Well after sometime it seems like a wedge was coming between us and we sort of broke up again. During the break up we decided to work on ourselves and friendship, we were both celibate because we decided to wait until we got married when we got back together. Well we were working on our relationship and I thought things were getting better. Anyway one day I went by his house to pick up something. I saw a van down the street and something told me to turn around and go to the van. Low and behold he is sitting in the van with some woman and a bunch of kids. To make a long story short he got out and was telling me he was talking to a friend but I knew he was not telling the truth, because he was taking so long the woman got out to tell me that she was 2months pregnant with his child. Mind you this is his 1st child. I was in shock but couldn’t cry because I dreamed this 2years prior when we were together. It hurt like I don’t know what and he stood there in shock looking at me. Things got ugly. This woman has a bunch of kids from numerous men and I just did not understand his mindset. His family is even in shock. He kept saying to me he is sorry and he didn’t mean for this to happen. He now acts hostile towards me and nobody understands this. Recently she sent me a message saying I could have him but she would always be in the picture. The sad part about it is she is right. That hurt because I thought we would have kids. Well I am hurt but I now wonder did God show me these things or did I make it up in my mind. I am confused and thrown off. I remember when I first dreamed about him having a kid he would say stop that with those dreams and tell me to chill and I was tripping. It is funny because before I found out the truth that same week I kept asking him was he still celibate he assured me he was. the same day I found out the truth he was in a bad mood and I said to him what is wrong, he said everything is going wrong and he was stressing. Of course I said well you didn’t get anybody pregnant and he lied and said NO, only for me to find out the truth hours later. I prayed about it and I heard something say to me now do you still want what I have for you or what you want for yourself. This has hurt me so that I don’t know who is saying what when I hear. I just don’t trust my self or discernment presently. So i am asking you who confirms that God is Saying this person is your mate how do you truly know for sure? God gives you a word and you trust and believe until it comes to pass, how are you sure he is the one. Just asking and sharing my story, maybe you can give me some insight…Until then i am hoping and praying that my true mate comes for me.

    • Hi Mysmiles, Sorry to hear about your very painful experience. Been there, done that have a Tee-shirt. Each of us have our own experience and we have to walk our own path and we have to determine what God is saying to us.

      As for me, I am pretty settled in my spirit in spite of the circumstance. What you don’t know is that God spoke to me 10 years ago and told me right before my mate and I got together he would come very close to marrying the wrong person. God told me I would speak and address many of his relationships, which I have and I was right. I have and am living that now. Then as the years passed God connected me with this man. Later on, God revealed to me the woman who he would come close to marrying. There have been a series of prophetic dreams, vision etc, that have confirmed it along the way. The last two dreams shared with me were through my very close friends which gave me great insight on what is happening now. I just believe God no matter how he is living. I know how he lives. God connected me to someone who was connected to his inner circle years ago. Plus God showed me in dreams. Because of the level is this vision and the level of the opposition, it took ten years to build my faith to the level where I just believe what God is saying. How could I not believe what God said when he revealed it to me BEFORE it happened??? That is foreknowledge.

      This man’s current relationship has a purpose, but it won’t be marriage. How God will intervene I don’t know. But God knows what is really going on in the life of both of these individuals. They are connected online. They don’t know what is really going on in each others lives. But God knows. I’m in this for the long haul and have no intention of giving up. I don’t know all the ends and outs. God knows.

      P.S. There are two keys here. God spoke to him. He is pretending that God didn’t speak and he pulled by his soul-tie to this other woman. Secondly, the Lord told me that I would really come into his life after a scandal. This is yet to manifest. There is nothing like a scandal to get ones attention. At this time God is going to get a hold to him and CHANGE HIS LIFE. The things he thought he could not let go of, he will rush to do. It will be a Saul to Paul circumstance. Stay tuned for my next post!

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