Everyone has their vision of how they will fall in love. But that does not mean it will happen the way that you want it to. My vision of love, in no way includes falling in love on the internet. My vision of love is more like meeting and getting to know one another and THEN falling in love.
Do I believe that you can fall in love with someone you have never met? Probably so. And for some people that works, but not so much for me. Even if I had not met, at least talking on the phone would be better.
What we never see in our vision of love is the one that we care for falling in love with someone else. But it does happen. So when that happens what should you do? Should you fight for the love of a person who has already fallen in love with someone else? I don’t think that is a good thing. Your best bet is to wait and see if it works out and if God’s will, you may still have a chance.
Some men and women want you to fight for their love, but that is not normal. I don’t think it’s normal or healthy to pine away for someone who has does not have mutual feelings for you. To me it’s a waste of time.
But if they are able to move on, there could still be a chance. It can happen and has happened. Sometimes God allows another relationship to prepare that person for the next one. It can happen. But until that time there is not much you can do. It’s just not wise to make changes in your life for someone who doesn’t love you back. That would be unwise. Even if you know you care for that person, let it lay dormant until the right time!
Song of Songs 2:7
New International Version (NIV)
7 Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you
by the gazelles and by the does of the field:
Do not arouse or awaken love
until it so desires.