Love Series: The Deficiency

iron-deficiencyRecently, I had to take counsel about a matter I was concerned about. I have a friend who has formed a unusually strong attachment with someone online and honestly, I have been concerned about it. There’s been no meeting, but yet and still this bond seems impenetrable. Well God gave my counsellor some great words of wisdom.

The counsellor first mentioned that this bond was not normal (I explained the situation) and that the person involved (the one I was concerned about) has some sort of deficiency. As I listened I realize that this was the truth. You see God was letting me know that my friend was not complete inside and that is why they were susceptible to this luring in. It may have started out as ministry, but the motive was incorrect and it later turned into more.

So now what should my friend do? Well if you feel like you cannot imagine your life without someone (really?) and you have never even met them, that is not normal and it may be time to seek counsel. It’s time for God to deal with the deficiency.

The more I see this situation, the more I realize that it’s going to end ugly. There is no avoiding it. The strange thing, is I’m not mad. I have compassion for the person and I am motivated to pray for this bond to break. It serves no purpose, other than a hinderance to the Will of God, so it’s time for it to end.

Here is a warning though. I have lived through not wanting to, or being able to let something or someone go, If it’s time, (it is) God will help us and usually it doesn’t happen in a good way. Don’t make God rip it out your hands! But I think that is what is going to happen and I think that is the purpose of this all. God told me there was a purpose, but it was not marriage and it may be for a breaking. But have not fear. If God allows it, he has a reason.

Isaiah 58:6

King James Version (KJV)

Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?

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