Love Series: Qualifications for a Mate

Godly_Man_500We all have our “list” of what qualifications we want for our mate. I don’t so much have a list, in that I have some deal breakers and we all have them.

I know that just recently a prophet spoke about my mate being a very hard working man.That is always good. The prophet also spoke as though this man was already in my life and he spoke of the regrets I have in dealing with him. He also said he would be a kind man. I mentioned those things because God mentioned them.

Yes, I want a hardworking, kind man and I want to make certain that I don’t harm him. But what is most important to me is his character.I am only interested in someone who will own what they are doing and when he knows better he will do better.

At my age, I can’t so much be concerned about his past because at this point we have both lived a lifetime. I just want him to be committed to God with a heart to live for God and be a man with a prayer life.

Godly character is at the top of the list. He won’t be perfect because neither am I. Short list huh? I am not looking for a whole lot of stuff because I know if he loves God and can fall in love with me and we can get along, we will have a happy life together.

Just some random thoughts. ūüôā

1 Timothy 6:6

New Living Translation (NLT)

6 Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth.

Running in the Opposite Direction

women-arguing1God told me to steer clear of a situation that I had previously participated in and boy am I glad that I listened¬†to God. Now there is a huge mess of bickering breaking out and though I have seen my name mentioned, I have not and WILL not take part. I greatly regret the last time I did. But when you know better you do better. It’s like God just wants me observe the¬†situation and that is what I am doing. Each day I understand why God said STEER CLEAR! All hell is about to break loose and I am not going to be in the fall out. No matter what lies are told on me, I do not care.

Someone is now talking class action suit and actually I remember seeing that in the spirit. I’m not sure if it’s going to happen or not, but I certainly will have nothing to do with it even though I have evidence of what was going on. Really it was just about me wanting to remember some words of “love” spoken to me. It was never my intention to sue anybody and I won’t. But it may happen.

God showed me a major storm in the month of March and actually, I think this is just the beginning. But I  am going to continue to obey and just be available, should God want to use this earthen vessel to bring healing. We  will see what the end is going to be.

I was thinking about a dream someone had in 2009. It truly was a prophetic dream because it’s manifesting now. The dream mention a woman from St. Louis, a limousine ride, a wedding date in January and a man who doesn’t even realize his universe is about to cave in. The interesting thing is the woman who had the dream, seems to be the one responsible for this mans world caving in. Every detail of the dream is true and it’s coming to pass NOW.

God showed me some of this years ago. I don’t care when God shows you something, if it’s from him, it will happen at the appointed time. It’s going to be hard, but the end result will be¬†deliverance¬†for everybody.

Ezekiel 12:21-26

New Living Translation (NLT)

A New Proverb for Israel

21¬†Again a message came to me from the¬†Lord:¬†22¬†‚ÄúSon of man, you‚Äôve heard that proverb they quote in Israel: ‚ÄėTime passes, and prophecies come to nothing.‚Äô¬†23¬†Tell the people, ‚ÄėThis is what the Sovereign¬†Lord¬†says: I will put an end to this proverb, and you will soon stop quoting it.‚Äô Now give them this new proverb to replace the old one: ‚ÄėThe time has come for every prophecy to be fulfilled!‚Äô

24¬†‚ÄúThere will be no more false visions and flattering predictions in Israel.¬†25¬†For I am the¬†Lord! If I say it, it will happen. There will be no more delays, you rebels of Israel. I will fulfill my threat of destruction in your own lifetime. I, the Sovereign¬†Lord, have spoken!‚ÄĚ

26 Then this message came to me from the Lord:

God Knows How to Deliver!

a  playerGod told me he was going to let me know something that I didn’t know, that would take the stress away. Well God did it, just like He said.

So, if a man is really sincere about a woman and TRULY loves her from the heart, and has been saying it for months, would he be seeing and or sleeping with other women? The answer is NO.

I don’t know what it is about men (not all men) that make them say what they think you want to hear. Here I was fretting over someone who is not even being faithful to the one he supposedly “loves”. Sad. Glad it’s not me!!!

When God first led me along this path he told me he would connect me with someone who would let me know what was really going on, and that is exactly what happened. Boy did I get a reminder about the true character of someone and I know God wanted me to hear it. I don’t know why I thought anything has changed. It hasn’t. And now you have a poor gullible woman, or as the bible would say, a silly woman, who has allowed herself to be led captive by a cunning man.

Talk about delivered!!! Thank you Jesus. I only want a man who has been totally and completely DELIVERED.

2 Timothy 3:1-9

New International Version (NIV)

3¬†But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days.¬†2¬†People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money,¬†boastful, proud,¬†abusive,¬†disobedient to their parents,¬†ungrateful, unholy,¬†3¬†without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good,¬†4¬†treacherous,¬†rash, conceited,¬†lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God‚ÄĒ¬†5¬†having a form of godliness¬†but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

6 They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7 always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth. 8 Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these teachers oppose the truth. They are men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. 9 But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone.